Start with these questions. Return to them regularly.
What does discipleship mean to you? What is your attitude about "following" (especially if you are usually seen as a leader)? How does the word "obedience" sit with you? What does it mean to become more and more "Christ like"?
Your answer to these questions provides insight regarding the way you make choices about how you will use time, space and resources on the days between Sundays. Your attitude about discipleship determines the scope of what you are willing (or not willing) to see as your mission field.
Do you set limits upon the range of your service?